What Successful Entrepreneur’s Have on their IPOD

Published on Wednesday, July 9th, 2008

I keep seeing these funny articles in different magazines like “What does Carrie Underwood listen to?” or “What’s on Matt Lauer’s IPOD?” It struck me as kind of funny until the other day when someone asked me, “Melanie, what do you listen to that helps you have a success mindset?

For me, it happens in multiple ways. I’m a big proponent of creating a success environment that pulls you towards your goals. I can’t always be with my mastermind so I find ways to create that energy with or without them. Listening to audio programs helps!

Two of my favorite audio programs right now are:

  • David Neagle’s Art of Success CDs. David is a very powerful wealth accelerator and has a way to teaching the Law of Attraction so it actually works!
  • Zig Ziglar’s Closing Secrets. I love how he tells stories to help build rapport and connect with your prospect.
  • ULTIMATE Wealth & Success Circle CDs. I actually do listen to my own CD series…I hear things from my monthly wealth experts that I often miss the first time.

I’m also a BIG music person and I have over 10,000 songs on my IPOD. I’ve got the monster big 80 G video IPOD and even though it’s a bit large I love it. I take it everywhere…in the car driving errands, to the gym or when I walking on my treadmill at home and even on planes or any time that I’m just chilling out.

Because music is so important to me, a cool song can get me hyped up and back on track too. Here are a few of my recent favorites:

  • My new favorite song by Natasha Beddingfeld, “Pocketful of Sunshine”. I’ve been listening to this on french fry days. The days when things are getting a bit frustrating and you are wondering if it would be easier to just go tend the counter at McDonald’s.
  • “New Soul” by Yael Naim. I love this cool little song that explores what it must be like to figure out how to be human and deal with each other’s idiosyncrasies.
  • “Clumsy” by Fergie. I don’t know what it is but I just love her…maybe because she has such a smokin hot body and she has over come a lot of bad influences from her past. She has a real spiritual side to her which I like.
  • Anything disco…I know, I know…but for some reason it just makes me want to dance and that lightens my mind immediately.

I also have all of my meditation CDs and the Goal-Setting and Procrastination Release tools from my ULTIMATE Success Generator loaded up. I listen to a track from these every morning to set my day in the right direction.

So what’s on YOUR IPOD that gets your head in the right place? What gets you motivated and ready for action? Feel free to share by posting your comments here.


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My new favorite spa retreat…Miramonte Spa & Resort

Published on Thursday, April 17th, 2008

This past weekend I conducted my first 2008 Platinum Elite Mastermind retreat in Palm Desert California at the Miramonte Spa & Resort. It’s a smaller boutique type resort but I have to say, it’s a big winner in my book! 

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I decided to treat myself and come in two days early just so I could have some down time, work on my book proposal and of course have some spa time. I even splurged for a suite over looking the gardens.The hotel’s service is truly wonderful. There were a few blips along the way but the staff truly did everything to make me comfortable, happy and to let me know I was important. 

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Platinum mastermind members: Ira Bloomfield,
James Jackman, Michele PW, me, Kendall Summerhawk,
Christina Merkely, Beth Schneider, and Evan MK.    

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One of our little adventures: the boat ride
at the JW Marriott to eat at Mikado’s.

My Platinum mastermind was ecstatic about the location and the experience. They all raved it was the best retreat yet (a few were new to the group the but ones who have been in for 2 years voted to return again next year!)

The mastermind experience was full of business growth strategies and challenges to experience huge shifts in their mindset and habits. But I have to admit that one of my favorite experiences was finding my new favorite spa treatment.

That’s right. For years I’ve raved about one spa in particular and I didn’t think any other place could win me over but it happened.

The Well (which is what they call their spa) has a fantastic treatment called the Organic Vegetable Wrap. I know it sounds like a sandwich, and I did feel like one too, but I felt like a million bucks after this treatment. It includes a body scrub, a gel-like vegetable concoction that you get wrapped up in, a head and foot massage (which were heavenly) and a full body Mediterranean massage.  

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Another favorite: their salt water hydro pools. Ahhh….

Not only was the treatment insane…but the way they treat their clients is fantastic. I was given a choice of music and aromatherapy…wow! Needless to say, we will be back to this resort. I may even have to bring my honey out there to experience this wonderful resort. If you are heading to the Palm Springs area I highly recommend this resort!

One of the best moments was when I sat and talked with another guest, a manager from Wells Fargo Securities. When he asked why I was at the resort I told him that this is how I work with my clients. It was always my dream to travel and spend more time at luxury resorts so I decided I would work with clients who wanted the same thing. I could see the envy in his eye when he realized I do this all the time, not just once a year like most of the corporate world does.


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A Do-It-Yourself’er Lesson Learned

Published on Thursday, December 20th, 2007

I’m sitting at my desk and I hear this HUGE crash downstairs. My heart starts racing and for a moment, I have a vision of my honey sprawled on the garage floor, bleeding to death…or worse.

As I race downstairs Mark is walking in the door (whew, he’s not dead) with his hand covered in blood. Since he isn’t cussing I know he must be in shock. His hand is covered with huge gashes, spewing blood and I quickly grab the first aid kit.

“What happened” I ask?

“The d*$# garage door broke on me,” he says. Now, I practice the art of being silent while internally I process the scene from four days earlier when I suggested that his time is too valuable to install a garage door. (Mark sells real estate.) The reply I got is, “This will be easy, I’m fine, I don’t want to waste $100 for someone else to do it.”

Mark has now spent 6 hours, 2 trips to Lowes and now a near physical disaster. Mark now comes to the realization that he has to hire a handy-man. We now spend $140 for them to finish installing it.

Cost to Mark: $40 more, 6 hours of lost “client time” which could result in $1000 - $25,00 in revenue and a hand that barely can move due to massive swelling and huge gashes.

How many times in your business do you find yourself saying, “I can do this quickly” to only find out that hours later you are still struggling to get it done.

The power of having a virtual assistant or outsourced expert is that you are focusing on your high payoff jobs (sales, marketing, visioning, planning, moving the business forward, etc.) When you let yourself get caught up in the things other can do faster, cheaper or better, you are throwing money and opportunities away.

It’s really a mindset issue — thinking you will save a few bucks or get it done cheaper by doing it yourself is a myth. Thinking you can do it better, well, you might. But to what expense?

It’s time for you to start exploring ways to get bigger in your success so be willing to delegate and outsource. Need some help learning how to build a team? Check out the two free chapters of my new e-book, The Power of the Virtual Team at www.thepowerofthevirtualteam.com.

Be sure to share it with your friends and colleagues too!


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A Four-Hour Work Week…Really?

Published on Monday, July 30th, 2007

After the 5th person told me about reading “The 4 Hour Work-Week” by Timothy Ferriss, I had to pick it up and see what the buzz was all about.

I mean, who wouldn’t want to read all about how to work less, right?

The book is truly a paradigm-shift for most of us, especially those who truly love what they do.

Here is a quick overview of what I took away from the book (I either learned it or was reminded of a concept in a new way.)

  • There is a source for “cheap” labor overseas that was only a rumor for me previously (Ferriss provides actual websites but remember you get what you pay for)
  • Most entrepreneur’s don’t delegate because they think because they can do it better that they should keep the task. Ferriss points out the goal is really to free your time to focus on bigger and better things — like your lifestyle! Virtual assistants and contractors can help you explode your success.
  • You must test your ideas before you invest countless hours and money building something you don’t know if the world wants or will buy. He maps out a great testing strategy.
  • The ruthless “task” cut-back process is fantastic. The addiction to email is the #1 contributor to unaccomplished goals!
  • His story about getting rid of the 80% of the “time wasting, energy draining” clients was right up my alley. I also teach my clients this and it works!

Here is what I would offer to those who jump on the “4-Hour Workweek” bandwagon.

The truth is if you love your work, you will never want to work only 4 hours a week. My guess is Ferriss has huge ADD and never really had a calling. But his calling became to teach others how to simplify their approach to living their ideal lifestyle. The principles in this book are excellent if you apply them to your own world.

Remember, a formula only works for you if you know how to align it with your own values, priorities and needs. Take what works and leave the rest.

If you love the idea of building a team and/or using virtual assistants (and you should) you might want to check out www.virtualteambuildingtelebootcamp.com. It is the program I teach to help people truly master the necessary skills, mindset and habits of someone who has a virtual team.

As for the book, for less than the price of dinner you will definitely get a brand new take on how to work less! It’s a great read and I highly recommend it.


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The UPLEVEL Your Business Seminar in Los Gatos, C…

Published on Monday, February 20th, 2006

The UPLEVEL Your Business Seminar in Los Gatos, CA
Just got back from speaking at the Uplevel Seminar. The event was targeted towards business owners who are taking their business to the next level. Here are the top 5 takeaways from my point of view:

1. Have good insurance. As a small business owner, insurance is what helps you protect what you make. It’s a good thing Pirie from State Farm was there because I’ve been looking for some additional insurance and she was able to help me out!

2. Proper Positioning is vital to your branding and marketing strategy. One of the attendees learned that his offering is actually much bigger (think social club) than just his product.

3. The right mindset is key. After I presented the visioning and mindset segment of the event, many of the attendees stopped by to tell me that they were quite overwhelmed, had a lot of fear about moving forward, and some just felt quite stuck. This is totally normal and yet is the biggest obstacle. I steered them all towards the ULTIMATE Business Breakthrough Intensive.

4. Breakdown your Marketing Plan into 90 day goals. When you look at EVERYTHING that has to get accomplished, it can feel really big. When you see the big picture and then focus on accomplishing something in the next 90 days, it becomes much more manageable.

5. Create a team. There were many different experts there that could help the attendees on everything from insurance and tax law to copywriting and PR. To get to your desired goals faster, leverage the power of a team of experts. Prirotize the order in which your projects need to get done though or you may find yourself slipping into overwhelm!

Here are some pix from the event:

From left: Lynn Pierce, Michele PW, Marc Harty, me,
Mary Pat Sorenson and Beth Schneider — liquid lunch time!

Marc Harty, Beth Schneider & I are ready for action!

Me teaching the keys to a successful mindset!

My good friend Leah Grant was the
first coach I ever met 5 1/2 years ago
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Mary Pat, Beth & Marc.

Leah with our dinner payment - pick a card any card!


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Sales Mini-Lesson from my friend, Ari Galper of Un…

Published on Sunday, October 9th, 2005

Sales Mini-Lesson from my friend, Ari Galper of Unlock the Game

How to Sell Without Becoming a Commodity

The next time you walk from your car to your office, take a look down your street. How many real estate offices do you see? In the last few years, the real estate boom has motivated thousands of people to enter the field. Agents who were in on the ground floor are probably finding it easier, but trying to break in and slug it out, day after day, with the competition, can be difficult and often times frustrating.

That’s why Gavin Watts’ story is so informative and insightful. Gavin is a fairly new real estate agent. He didn’t have a sales background. In fact, he was a paramedic for 14 years. Like thousands of other agents, he wanted to ride the real estate boom and earn a better income for himself and his family.

But no one ever told him that real estate is a dog-eat-dog business. Today, though, Gavin’s sales are booming, with a 50 percent increase, to be exact. He’s attracting prospects to him. He gets return calls when he leaves voicemails he leaves. He’s having a ball and making a really good living. Here’s his story in his own words:


Dear Ari,
As you know, before I got into real estate, I had no background in sales. The idea of making cold calls was something I deeply feared, but the office I was going to join promised me a full sales training program that would teach me to sell by following “proven” scripts.

So I decided, “Why not? I’ll give it a try.” The first few weeks went well — lots of going out with other brokers, lots of coaching from my manager, and lots of training about contracts, rules, and regulations. But the first day I had to get on the phones myself, I began wondering if I’d made the right decision. I used all the sales methods I had learned. I was 100 percent “by the book.” I overcame objections. I pulled prospects along a linear sales process. I tried to close every time I could.

All I got was continued rejection.

It was almost as if “real estate agent” was as negative a stereotype as “salesperson.” It didn’t take me long to realize that if I kept approaching prospects the way every other agent was, I was asking for rejection.

I started having major issues making any phone calls, let alone cold calls, and I felt terrified when a prospect would ask me, “Why I should go with you?” and I had to defend myself.

The whole selling thing just felt so awkward and natural. All I wanted to do was help people with their real estate needs, and I kept wondering, “Why does ‘selling’ have to get in the way of helping people?”

That was the point when I found your Mastery program on your website. I read a couple of your articles, and then it hit me like a ton of bricks:

If I was going to succeed in real estate sales, I had to avoid every behavior that would associate me with a stereotypical real estate agent.

I ordered your Mastery Program that very day — and I haven’t looked back since. It turned my thinking upside-down in a positive way that made it possible for me to go back to being myself and yet be extremely effective when prospecting for new business.
The Mindset made complete sense to me. My goal is no longer to “get the listing.” Instead, I focus on getting knowledge from prospects as to whether I can help them or not.

Here are some specifics about what happened once I made that shift in my thinking and sales efforts — which have brought me more and more listings and made me the envy of my office.

Example One: Open Houses
You know how these go. Open houses are when a seller’s broker sets certain times to show the home to anyone who comes by. Last week, one particular woman seemed very interested in a home. She even gave me her card so I could follow up with her.

So I called her twice and got her answering machine both times, but I didn’t leave a message. Instead, I did exactly what you suggested about following up without putting pressure on people. I called back a third time and left this message: “Hi, it’s Gavin from the open house, and I just wanted to see if you might have any feedback about the home you walked through. Just feedback is fine, no pressure at all…just wanted to learn what your thoughts were.”

She called back seven minutes later! Even more amazing, she started to tell me her “truth,” as you describe in your program. I learned exactly where she stood, and that was a huge relief because I learned that there wasn’t a fit, so I didn’t have to keep chasing her. Ending the chasing game is a key strategy that I learned from you, and it has saved me untold hours of time and energy.

Example Two: Free Market Evaluations
One major marketing strategy that real estate agents use with prospects is to offer a free market evaluation of how their home compares to others that have recently sold in their neighborhood. A lot of sellers actually interview several agents and get these evaluations from them before deciding who they’ll list with.
The problem is, if you use any of the typical scripts, prospects shut down right away because they know that these “free” evaluations give agents a chance to apply subtle pressure to get the listing.
I decided to call a prospect who I thought would be good for one of these evaluations, but to do it based on your Mastery program, in a way that took the pressure off the call.

What I said to him was, “I’m happy to do an evaluation of your home to give you an approximate price that I think it can sell for, but under no circumstances do I want you to feel at any time that I’m using this as a way to get your business. I don’t want to make any assumptions here. I simply want to help you — no strings attached — and if you need my help afterwards, you can reach out to me at your convenience.” And this wasn’t just a “line”, this was the truth, based on your Mindset.

All I can say is, I could hear him melt on the phone. He invited me over, we had a great talk, I now have a solid relationship with him, and he knows that when he is ready to sell his home, he can call me knowing I’ll be 100% focused on his interests and not mine. I did what you said. I focused on helping him rather than on trying to “make the sale.” This approach just feels so right.

My results and how I feel are how I measure your program. My sales are up 50 percent. I feel centered and relaxed, and I don’t feel affected by the negative real estate stereotype that everyone else in the business I know carries.

Thanks to your coaching, I’ve released my mind from thinking about where my next paycheck is coming from, and it’s bringing me more business that I can handle.

If I had to summarize what I learned from you, it would be:
It’s not about what you’re selling, it’s about how you’re selling.

Thank you Ari, Gavin

Gavin Watts
RE/MAX Real Estate - Australia+61 7 3843 9108

Sales Mini-Lesson Take Aways

In your own field, you can probably come up with situations that are like the ones Gavin described. Here are some ideas about how you can use his examples to help you stay focused on how you’re selling rather than on what you’re selling:

Does your field have its own form of “open house”?

Most industries let prospects “walk through” the product or service by offering a free trial period or free demonstration. And, depending on the field you’re in, trade shows, exhibitions, and business networking events are like “open houses” where prospects can look at what you have to offer and leave contact information so you can call them later.

In any of these situations, you can adapt Gavin’s approach when you call the other person. If you reach him or her directly, you can say something along these lines:

“Hi, it’s Jill from ……, and I just wanted to see if you might have any feedback about our product or service now that you’ve had a chance to spend some time getting to know what it’s all about. Just feedback is fine, no pressure at all…just wanted to learn what your thoughts were.”
If you reach their voicemail, you can leave a message that is also along these lines. In many cases, your no-pressure message will lead to a return of your phone call and a cordial conversation.

Does your field offer its own types of “free market evaluation”?

Free, no-obligation initial consultations are the equivalent of real estate market evaluations. But, like Gavin, you may find that prospects pull back if they sense in any way that you are trying to exert sales pressure on them as you offer consultations.

The key here is to offer a consultation that is keyed specifically to the prospect’s problem or issue, and to make it clear that you’re offering it as a service without any expectation that a sale will result.

You can say something along these lines:
“I’d be happy to give you a free, no-obligation consultation so we can explore possible solutions for the issue you’re dealing with. But under no circumstances do I want you to feel I’m using this as a way to get your business. It’s completely no-strings-attached. I simply want to help you, and if you decide you’d like me to help you down the road, it would be totally at your convenience.”

When you fully integrate the Mindset from the Mastery Program of solving problems and not applying sales pressure, prospects will probably stop asking why they should go with you — because it will be obvious why they should.

To your success,

Ari Galper
Unlock The Game


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A Brand Oasis in a Sea of "Too Much Info" I spent…

Published on Saturday, July 23rd, 2005

A Brand Oasis in a Sea of “Too Much Info”

I spent the last 2 days in Peter Montoya’s Brand University. Wow. I’ve seen Peter speak many times before…as a matter of fact he helped me celebrate my birthday back in May (see May posts for Small Biz Marketing Summit.)

I attended the event as part of my ongoing quest to find the best education and training for my clients and small biz networks. I have completed the process with a new branding statement that truly captures the essence of my programs. I’m not going to tell yet though…..but soon!

People often ask me how I skyrocketed my success so quickly. Attending events like this one has definitely helped. I invest over $10k per year in my continuing education. The knowledge is just one part of the ROI. The other part is I always leave with clients and cross-marketing partnerships. So I probably quadruple my revenue every year just from investing in education and training.

Because I believe that 90% of success is determined by your mindset, I’d like to share a golden nugget from Peter. Most people limit their success by saying:

“What the least amount of money I can spend to stay above water.”

The million-dollar question really is:

“What’s the most I’m willing to invest to ensure I’ll achieve my goals.”

Do you get the difference with the second question? One is positioning your mind for a successful outcome, the other is positioned for struggle. Start asking yourself the million-dollar investment question and I know you will tap into all kinds of new possibilities.

What are you willing to invest? Share it here…


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