Comments on: Conquering your “Stuckness”: How to Win the Internal War and Get Back on Track http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/ The Entrepreneur\'s Success Coach shares the secrets to having more freedom, more profits, and more prestige! Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:41:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: sam http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5145 sam Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:17:39 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5145 good article about values. I procrastinate alot. procrastinating because I have to do something I don't want to do. or I am afraid it won't turn out perfect so I never get started. i don't have a good enough self-esteem to feel confident, so the only way people will like me is if I'm perfect. i fear being rejected by people if I come up less than perfect, so I don't do what I should. i value feeling safe and secure so I don't take risks. by not taking risks I can't grow. if I value spending time with my family, and I fear that if my business becomes successful then I won't have time to spend with my family, then I may sabotage my efforts so that I don't get the success I claim I want. but if my business was successful, I could afford to hire people to do some of my work, and then I'd have more time for my family. I know what to do, but i am still afraid that it won't work out, and all that effort will be wasted. I am at the point where I don't have enough time to do things. I don't have the energy to stay up all night finishing work. I don't have the time to keep my house clean. and many times it's because i'm wasting time on the web like this, instead of doing what I should be doing. i'm not doing it because I don't like the results i am getting. so it's like I don't have enough time as it is, so how can I ever take on more work that I need to do to become successful? i can't afford to take a risk by paying someone to do my housework or other stuff to free up time, because my results from my current work do not bring in enough cash. so I'm afraid i'll just be in another failure situation. how do I bridge the gap between where I am, feeling safe, and where I need to be? in other words, how do I change my values? by seeing that the value that I have are not working? good article about values. I procrastinate alot. procrastinating because I have to do something I don’t want to do. or I am afraid it won’t turn out perfect so I never get started. i don’t have a good enough self-esteem to feel confident, so the only way people will like me is if I’m perfect. i fear being rejected by people if I come up less than perfect, so I don’t do what I should. i value feeling safe and secure so I don’t take risks. by not taking risks I can’t grow.

if I value spending time with my family, and I fear that if my business becomes successful then I won’t have time to spend with my family, then I may sabotage my efforts so that I don’t get the success I claim I want. but if my business was successful, I could afford to hire people to do some of my work, and then I’d have more time for my family. I know what to do, but i am still afraid that it won’t work out, and all that effort will be wasted.

I am at the point where I don’t have enough time to do things. I don’t have the energy to stay up all night finishing work. I don’t have the time to keep my house clean. and many times it’s because i’m wasting time on the web like this, instead of doing what I should be doing. i’m not doing it because I don’t like the results i am getting. so it’s like I don’t have enough time as it is, so how can I ever take on more work that I need to do to become successful? i can’t afford to take a risk by paying someone to do my housework or other stuff to free up time, because my results from my current work do not bring in enough cash. so I’m afraid i’ll just be in another failure situation.

how do I bridge the gap between where I am, feeling safe, and where I need to be?

in other words, how do I change my values? by seeing that the value that I have are not working?

]]> By: chona http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5144 chona Mon, 09 Jun 2008 13:22:07 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5144 When we stuck,we ought know what are our priorities in life same as our goals.I think by doing this, we can get out on that stuff and get back on track! _________________ chona Alcohol abuse affects millions. This site has a lot of useful information http://www.alcoholabusecenter.com When we stuck,we ought know what are our priorities in life same as our goals.I think by doing this, we can get out on that stuff and get back on track!

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chona
Alcohol abuse affects millions. This site has a lot of useful information
http://www.alcoholabusecenter.com

]]> By: Melanie Benson Strick http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5143 Melanie Benson Strick Sun, 08 Jun 2008 22:40:25 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5143 Jill, Fear is always a sign. But sometimes we misinterpret the signs based on our old stories and beliefs. "Kaizen Consulting" noted that fear of failure can also be the culprit. So can fear of success. What's most important is that when fear (or any block) is present that you find out what fear is trying to tell you so that you can deal with it and move forward. Not dealing with it is what keeps you stuck! If the "smoke and mirrors" is your concern then I'd ask you -- do you feel in integrity with what you teach? If you are worried about "being found out" then it's time to do your own work to get your foundation strengthened so you can leap forward. good luck! Melanie Jill,

Fear is always a sign. But sometimes we misinterpret the signs based on our old stories and beliefs.

“Kaizen Consulting” noted that fear of failure can also be the culprit. So can fear of success.

What’s most important is that when fear (or any block) is present that you find out what fear is trying to tell you so that you can deal with it and move forward. Not dealing with it is what keeps you stuck!

If the “smoke and mirrors” is your concern then I’d ask you — do you feel in integrity with what you teach? If you are worried about “being found out” then it’s time to do your own work to get your foundation strengthened so you can leap forward.

good luck!

Melanie

]]> By: Kaizen Consulting Blog http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5140 Kaizen Consulting Blog Fri, 06 Jun 2008 20:45:18 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5140 Thank you for your article. Sometimes fear of failure is what holds small business owners back, which causes them to feel stuck. Thank you for your article. Sometimes fear of failure is what holds small business owners back, which causes them to feel stuck.

]]> By: mayprilcute http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5137 mayprilcute Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:46:29 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5137 the best thing that you can do if you're stuck is RELAX and think every decision you make. I've read an article with regards to being stuck.It is a story about a man who always worry about everything,About his decisions in life.He's always in the situation of being stuck.Then a man named Jesus came by.The man kept on asking Jesus what he should do with his worries,.Jesus told him to relax, worrying too much can only make things complicated. So, relax,take a deep breath whenever you're stuck.it will help you decide what to do or which to choose. hack333 Addiction treatment and recovery resources for the addict and their families. http://www.addictiontreatment.net http://www.addictiontreatment.net the best thing that you can do if you’re stuck is RELAX and think every decision you make. I’ve read an article with regards to being stuck.It is a story about a man who always worry about everything,About his decisions in life.He’s always in the situation of being stuck.Then a man named Jesus came by.The man kept on asking Jesus what he should do with his worries,.Jesus told him to relax, worrying too much can only make things complicated.
So, relax,take a deep breath whenever you’re stuck.it will help you decide what to do or which to choose.

hack333
Addiction treatment and recovery resources for the addict and their families. http://www.addictiontreatment.net
http://www.addictiontreatment.net

]]> By: Jill http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5127 Jill Tue, 03 Jun 2008 19:06:02 +0000 http://www.successconnections.com/articles/2008/06/03/conquering-your-%e2%80%9cstuckness%e2%80%9d-how-to-win-the-internal-war-and-get-back-on-track/#comment-5127 I get stuck when moving forward means that my deepest fear may be revealed - that I'm really not as good as I say or people think I am. Is it all just smoke and mirrors? I get stuck when moving forward means that my deepest fear may be revealed - that I’m really not as good as I say or people think I am. Is it all just smoke and mirrors?

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